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Entangled Minds? Not dating but intense friends

I'm over-educated--very into art, film, philosophy, and psychology--and while formal education doesn't matter, I want someone with similar inclinations for frequent correspondence-based friendship. It could get intense and intimate, but I'm not seeking romance.

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My Cat(s)

What breed is your cat(s)?Domestic Short Hair

My Gaming Preferences

I playAction/Adventure, Role Playing
I play onPlayStation
My favourite games areIn my teens: Phantasy Star 2; later, Final Fantasy X; recent-ish, Dragon Age, maybe


EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
Height6' 1" (185 cm)
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorDark brown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairBeard
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionBipolar
My AttractivenessAttractive


Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Wants to RelocateNo
Have PetsCat
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Doctorate
SpecialtyArt / Music / Literature
Employment StatusSelf-employed
Job TitleWriter

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesDocumentaries, Dramas, Movies, Science fiction
Favorite TV showsI'm hoping Westworld gets better. I'm getting tired of Walking Dead and American Horror Story but keep with them. It's time for more House of Cards. I hope Hannibal gets a fourth season. Looking forward to the new Twin Peaks.
Favorite movies typesAction, Science fiction, Drama, Horror, Thriller
Favorite moviesDario Argento, Lars von Trier, Ingmar Bergman, Takashi Miike... oh, but it varies with my moods. I was gushing about Hitchcock earlier.
Music typesRock, Electronic, Industrial, Ambient, Folk
Favorite artistsRecent: Frightened Rabbit, Twilight Sad, Mitski, The National, Editors, ANONHI
Reading selectionNews, Ancient, Anthology, Classic, Fiction, History, Horror, Humor, Instructional, Mystery, Philosophy, Political, Poetry, Religious, Satire, Science, Science fiction, Technical, I'm an author
Favorite booksI have a PhD in English Literature and have published 9 books. Don't get me started!
Idea of funFrank and open, deep conversation. Oh, and travel, good meals with good drink, music, friends, beautiful architecture, seeing and experiencing new and exciting things, gaining new perspective...
HobbiesArts & Crafts, Music, Movies, Internet, Games, Theater, Travel


DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorStrange
Friends describe asObscure
In High School I was a(n)Brain
Sense of humorClever
My great timeHanging out with friends, Staying at home, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Drinking, Reading a book, Going to a casino, Playing video games, TV, Going to a concert, Going to a museum
Always wanted to tryA massive orgy, but that's not on the agenda. Otherwise, most of Asia.


Political viewsVery liberal
Attend religious servicesNever
Goal in lifeLiterary immortality, maybe, and otherwise to cope meaningfully until I snuff it.

Looking For

Must maveIntelligence, Great skills, Empathy, Oddities, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerI'm not looking for a traditional romantic partner. I have one. I'm looking for an intellectual and emotional mate... friendship of a deeper-than-usual sort.
On the first dateMy first date with my partner was 20 years ago--I was 19. I couldn't be more clueless. Lucky thing is, what I'm looking for has no rules except one... we won't be physically involved.